When you do it with a smile

Struggle is a part of life, especially the christian life, but there is a difference in the way a christian is to handle their struggle in comparison to the world. Most of the world deals with struggle by complaining, getting frustrated, voicing their dismay and gripes with life and occasionally taking it out on others. On the contrary, as a follower of Christ we are to handle our struggles in a more discrete manner. Without wining and crying, without getting angry and especially without taking this anger out on others. With every struggle that we face we are to walk into the struggle and through the struggle knowing that when it comes to a head you will be the victor over your circumstance because Jesus has given you the victory.

In fact, we should always handle our struggles by smiling and maintaining our smile through and through.


What this does is affect all of the people around you. Smiles really are contagious and I believe God made it that way on purpose. When you smile and handle something unpleasant while not letting it negatively impact you, it really can turn the situation around. For instance; I had a patient yesterday and she was just rude as can be. I walked in said hello and introduced myself. She replied saying okay what do you want? Resiliently I maintained my smile and told her I needed to run an EKG on her. Her response, “Wait till I’m done with my dinner.” This would be an understandable request as I know a lot of nurses and doctors that would rip a patient away from their meal to do what ever they needed to do, but this was no request it was an angry demand, an unnecessary one at that. I pleasantly tell her, “that is perfectly fine with me, I will come back in a little bit.” She says nothing in response. Ten minutes later I come back and she lays in her bed and gets ready for the EKG. I ask her where shes from and she looks at me for a minute and sees that I’m still smiling and gives and acquiescent smile of her own. From there she proceeded to tell me where she was from, where she moved to, how she likes it there etc… and when I saw her today she enthusiastically smiled and waved hello.

I don’t know if this woman was having a bad day or if she was just always like this but because I put my personal feelings aside and did not let my personal life struggles effect my attitude toward her, she was unable to keep up her unwarranted attitude toward me.

Let your smile be infectious, touch the world by allowing them to see how adversity aught to be dealt with. Show them that when you have Jesus there is no need to have a long face because the victory is yours. Give God the glory by showcasing the beautiful smile he molded for you. Your attitude can change your life and the people around you. It makes you better and stronger and it makes the people around you develop a spirit of Joy.

Now here’s a picture of me and my wife smiling to uplift you guys.



9 thoughts on “When you do it with a smile

  1. That took a lot of strength to do that Juju – I think I would have been half tempted to yell back if someone did that to me, lol! I commend you for taking the high road there.

    On a side note, I do think it’s OK for Christians to share their burdens with each other in a calm, collected manner. We’re still human and sometimes need someone to vent to (Or in Christian terms, bear each others burdens). Whenever I share my struggles with my friends, I always feel a lot better and more at ease. Nonetheless, I believe that God can give us patience and wisdom in the midst of adversity, much like He did in your situation. Great post and glad to see you back on WordPress again!

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    1. Thank you very much Courts I appreciate the love you always show. Don’t be mistaken though by more discreet I meant to be less vocal in an obnoxious way not completely silent about ones issues. haha I would never tell someone to bottle up all their anger. perhaps I should have included this view in todays blog hahaha. Thank you so much for the feedback 😀

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      1. Ohhhh ok! That makes a lot more sense! In that case, I agree with you.😂😂😂 I’m sure other people got it – that’s just what came to my mind as I read. And no problem, I always enjoy reading and commenting!


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